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    queenmel101 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 16, 2013, 03:40 PM
    What does he feel? Im so confused!
    I was with my first love for 4 months and I was his first love too. I was the first girl he ever liked, ever loved, first kiss, first girlfriend, lost his virginity, EVERYTHING. We were with each other almost always and loved each other loads until we split up due to a mistake I made in meeting a male friend, but it was only to organise a surprise for him. Any he left me and I was wondering if he would still love me after two weeks! Hes constantly out with his friends and smoking weed recently and I don't know why? Could anyone help? He told me he liked someone but I don't think its true I'm not sure, maybe he just said that to annoy me? Also, he blocked my number deleted me from Facebook and everything, what's it all about?
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    Mar 17, 2013, 12:18 AM
    He blocked you, deleted number, told you that he like someone else. What else you want to believe that he is over you. I guess you still not accepting this. You need to get over this guy asap. I know this is difficult but you have to move on. Best wishes.
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    Mar 17, 2013, 12:33 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smkanand View Post
    He blocked you, deleted number, told you that he like someone else. What else you want to believe that he is over you. I guess you still not accepting this. You need to get over this guy asap. I know this is difficult but you have to move on. best wishes.
    Its hard to get over a first love but if its not meant to be.. its not meant to be. I am sure you are a lovely young girl and have lots of things you could be focused on besides someone who is not treating you the way you deserved to be treated. I would occupy myself with my friends and family and then either he realizes that he messed up or you move on and find someone who truly deserves you and treats you with more respect. Good Luck... sounds like your young and you have lots more time to find the right guy:)
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    Mar 18, 2013, 07:37 AM
    It would be magical if we all stayed with our first loves forever, but sadly that's not the case for most of us. He has blocked your number, deleted you on Facebook and no doubt you feel totally heartbroken and that's understandable. You still feel like you need him in your life and you can't understand why he doesn't feel the same way about you. I do have to agree with blondeclan and say keeping yourself occupied with friends and family and keep yourself busy the days will pass and with time the heartbreak will ease little by little each day until you will realise that you are over him. Yes you will always remember your time with him but you do deserve someone who is willing to treat and love you the way you deserve. I really hope that you feel better soon.

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