OK my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years we broken up for a year in between that for a break because we are both young I went traveling and he went to uni.

We kept in contact and we spoke nearly everyday. I got back from traveling and we got back together and he wanted to know if I had kissed anyone and I told him one and I asked the same and he also said one.

One night out this girl was very nasty to me and she knew my boyfriend. I asked over and over did he kiss her and he kept saying no. I told him I really wouldn't mind we were broken up I would just like to no.

I found out that a week after we got back together he was sending flirty messages to women and to the one I ask if he kissed. He has just told me now that he did kiss her. Should I be as bothered as I am that he lied to me repeatedly over 6 months? It's the lie that hurts the most and the fact that everyone new except me. What should I do?

You have to decide for yourself... a million people could tell you to leave this guy or stay with him but they are not the one in the relationship, you are! In my opinion, relationships don't really last if there is no trust. But if you do trust him still but are just hurt because of it, just make sure you talk to him about it and if you are still unsatisfied you got to evaluate it yourself to decide if it's a deal breaker for you!

I don't trust him right know. But will I again? I am hurt very very hurt.

From my experience, you might start to momentarily but because you don't trust him you will start to question everything he does which only leads to more and more arguments and stress. It leads to a very unhealthy relationship. And in the end you realize all the time you wasted