Myself and My Girlfriend met about 3 years ago in church and we were friends for a long while. I had heard that she liked me, but I was always too afraid to ask her out. Well since I was too afraid to ask her, my good friend asked her out instead, and they dated for about 4 months. He later dumped her and treated her very badly after they broke up. She was heart broken, so I stopped speaking to my friend who had hurt her so much, and I became a closer friend for her while she was feeling down. Well after they had been apart for a couple months, I finally got the courage to ask her out, and so we dated for a couple months, but after that she told me that she still had feelings for her old boyfriend, we broke up and we didn't really talk for quite a few months. About 3 and a half months ago we started speaking again, and soon after she told me that she really liked me and wanted to date again. So we started dating at the beginning of September, and we spent almost all our free time together. We stayed with each other almost every night watching movies, and just loving every minute of what we had, but then she just stopped wanting to hang out anymore. She told me we were seeing too much of each other and we needed "Space". Which to me is just a way around saying "I don't want to date you anymore". So we broke up needless to say. When we were dating we always talked about our future plans, and about spending the Holidays together. But anyway while we were together, I had already gotten her a Christmas present. First I made two wooden hearts and l overlayed them on each other and put her name in one heart, and my name in the other heart to make "Two Bonded Hearts" I also went to a jeweler and bought her a $400 promise ring to give her, and I put it on a silver necklace so she could wear it on her hand or around her neck. The money isn't what was the important part. I loved her with all my heart and she broke it a second time. She will barely speak to me again. I don't know what I should do with the ring and other present that I made for her. I can't return the ring anyway. I want to give it to her still and show her how much I do love her, but I'm not sure what to do?

Well... I would sell the ring and necklace and not give her anything for Christmas. You need to let this girl go. She sounds really "confused" right now. It's best for you to just leave her alone and stick to your family and friends for the holidays.

It will be tough... but you have to do it.

Its kind of hard bouncing back to an ex, and getting dumped again. I think the best thing to do, is make sure you don't repeat that mistake again.

Give yourself some time to heal, and if you leave her alone, and get on with your own life, it will get better.

Sell the ring at a pawn shop, and give her the gift, and disappear from her life. It will get better.

Step 1: Sell the ring. Get your money back.

Step 2: Gather your mates. Make some plans.

Step 3: Use ring money for whatever. Christmas in Vegas?