My wife left me in September. It started I had our son every Thursday through Sunday evening. In late October, I called her to see if I could keep him an extra day, and she said yes but bring him back before five o clock. When I called to see if she was ready, she said she was at work and shed pick him up at two in the morning. She never came. She calls a week later saying she was giving me full custody and she only wanted him one day a week and every other week end and she was filling for divorce and setting up child support for me to receive for our son. Week after week, I've called her mom, I've called her to see our son. Its now December 2nd and she hasn't made any attempt to come see him or so much as call to check up on him. I was a full time student at aviation Institute of Maintenance while she worked nights. I came home from school, bathed him, cooked, cleaned, etc. So, when she left, I was stuck scrambling for a job. I've recently lost my place because I've spent all my student stripened checks to pay rent one more month and to support him. She hasn't filed for divorce yet or giving me his info. When I went to go get his birth certificate so I can get the help I needed, she changed her maiden name to bolten when its really clark. I had to show the health department my marriage affidavit before they would give me his birth certificate. Sges still getting foodstamps using our old address and we've been evicted. I gat her on digital recording staring she doesn't want him along with raunchy details of her affair. I also got it on recording how many times I have made attempts for her to see him with time and dates smh. What am I supposed to do?

You hire an attorney or get legal aid, You file for divorce, file for custody of the child, and file for support. Nothing else matters, you may never actually get support or it may take years so don't count on that.

Don't worry about what she has filed or what aid she is getting. Or what address she uses.

You worry and take care of you.

File for welfare, file for benefits and insurance for the child if available where you live.

I've already went to leagle sid and they said they were too overloaded to help me. I can't afford an attorney. And I have to worry about her getting aid be ause its keeping me from getting the benefits I need because she has our son on her case still. And she falsely changed her maiden name and for all I know she could be using hus social security number and mine for who knows what.