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Sep 21, 2010, 06:19 PM
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What to do
My boyfriend and I was suppose to move in together but he end up getting his own place for lik 3weeks and didn't tell me what should I do,, should I be mad? How do I show him I am hurt
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Sep 21, 2010, 06:32 PM
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So, he's staying in a temporary place before the two of you move in together? Or he got a permanent home without you? I don't understand your question. You don't have to think of a creative way to SHOW him that you are upset. Just tell him. A relationship without communication won't last.
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Sep 21, 2010, 06:43 PM
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Last time I check we were suppose to move in together that's what we been talking about but he went out and got one by himself, I found out from a friend he got the place and iwas the last to see it,, why would he do something lik that,, is it that he doesn't want to live wit me so he had to hide it... and your right:)
He got a permanent place without me
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Sep 21, 2010, 06:51 PM
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On an off chance, is it possible he was going to surprise you with it and have you move in with him?
Or it could be he has decided he doesn't want to live with you and just wasn't mature enough to tell you directly.
I am guessing it is the second possibility. Three weeks and not telling you he has his own place, with you being the last to know? Either there was some major miscommunication or he has changed his mind. Ask him what's going on.
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Sep 21, 2010, 07:14 PM
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@LC... I thought it was the first one to but then it came clear I was the last to see the place... I guess your right I would have to talk to him to see what's really going on
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Vision Expert
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Sep 21, 2010, 08:03 PM
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Sounds like he's being a coward about telling you that he didn't want to live with you. But these are not questions that we can answer for you. You need to have a discussion with him about this.
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Expert
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Sep 21, 2010, 08:20 PM
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Why even tolerate that kind of behavior in the first place? Let him live there by himself, without you in his life.
Obviously his words, and actions don't match.
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Sep 22, 2010, 05:40 AM
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Disrespectful behaviour on his part and an indication that he sees no future with you at the moment.
How long have you two been together?
Regardless, he's still a coward for not telling you.
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Sep 22, 2010, 10:10 AM
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Everyone is so right,, I been thinking the same things your saying,, we've been together 4mths,, I really did lik him that's why I stuck to him,, actions speaks louder then words,, he have that good talk
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Sep 22, 2010, 11:38 AM
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Why not try getting a place on your own. Show him how you are not dependent on any man to be able to make it on your own. Go out and socialize with your friends and keep your chin up. Good luck
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