My boyfriend and I have been together almost a 1 1/2 years we lived together for a year of it, we moved pretty quickly, at the beginning it was so great and so was the sex, but now we fight all the time we have found new places to live, and he doesn't want sex with me, he says I pushed him away back when we fought all the time, he keeps saying that he wants this to work and that he loves me but he gets me no gifts on special occasions, and even though we've kind of stopped fighting he still shows no interest in sex and just tells me I'm a nympho even though its been a few months since we last had sex. I think I still love him and I feel like I'm stuck how do I make it better or can I? My parents hate him and what he is doing to me, my friends hate him because they think I've changed so much. I do everything for him but he won't help me with anything and then if he does he holds it over my head. He is constantly accusing me of cheating, he sms'd my ex and told him to get over me, (he thinks I don't know about this). If a guy friend talks to me he goes nuts. Then he flirts with another girl right in front of me and when I say anything about it he tells me I'm too jealous. He used to be so great why is changing and if he really doesn't want me or love me why won't he just let me go. I've tried to break up with him but he convinces me to stay by telling me how much he loves me and how things are going to get better but I've seen no change. I just saw something he wrote saying how he doesn't think him and I will ever work(once again he doesn't know that I know) please help serious answers only!

Try to see if you can get the two of you to open up wholeheartedly to each other. There are evidently some unresolved issues here that need to be addressed in order for this to ever have a chance of working out.