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    tallandconfused Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 11, 2008, 07:16 PM
    What did I get myself into?
    HI, I have resently entered into a relationship and I found out today that my girlfriend is pregnant by another man. I would just like to know what do I do? I am a religious person and I believe in the Bible it says for a man not to get into a relationship with an adulterous woman but I'm not sure if that qualifies as adulterous.

    I would really appreciate any feedbac or advice you would or can give. Thanks!!
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    Sep 11, 2008, 07:27 PM
    If she was married an she got pregnant its not a sin. If her husband cheated it was cause to leave the relationship. You need to ask her what happened between her an her ex. If u love this woman an you want to be with her you should suport her an her child. If u don't think you can be with her because she is having a baby then you need to leave before the child is born. You need to let her know your feelings an be honest with her she at least deserves the truth. God would not hold it against u ,
    If u fell in love with a woman that is exspecting a child. You should pray an ask Jesus
    He will give your answer . But I'm sure Jesus would be proud your taking care of someone else's child.
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    Sep 11, 2008, 07:27 PM
    If she's not married to that person then its not adultery.
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    Sep 11, 2008, 07:32 PM
    How far along is she & how long have you been going out with her? A pg is only 9 months so she can't be that far along if you only recently found out about it. And if she knew all along & didn't tell you up front, that's not a good sign either.

    The real issue isn't so much an adulterous woman but the fact that she is obviously pg by someone else who should be in the child's life permanently & she really may not be ready to get into another relationship right now. There is a good chance you will get caught up in the middle of that one way or another which isn't good for you or anyone else.

    Do you know why they broke up or any details of her prior relationship?

    That's a tuff situation to be in...

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