My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2+ years. We have always had somewhat of a rocky relationship and in the beginning we used to argue over such meaningless minor things. In May he moved to Houston after graduating law school (he is originally from Houston) and right after him leaving he broke up with me through a text message and completely shut me out of his life for the net 3 months. He had to study for the BAR so looking back I think that was a large reason he did what he did but at the time I was absolutely devistated. He refused to give me any answers and just completely ignored me never responding to one text message or one call. Then in August we started talking again and for the first time he told me that he loved me and realized that he missed me. At the time I was pregnant with his child but never had been able to tell him because of his refusual to talk to me. I decided to go forward with having an abortion we both agreed that's what was best. Now, it's November and not one time has he come to visit me. In fact, the whole time between August and now he has been so mean towards me. Recently he told me it's because he thought I was hiding something and that I was still pregnant. Essentially he has been mean to me all this time for something he assumed that wasn't true. Now, he has broken up with me telling me our relationship is too damaged and nothing he said in August has ever come true. For the past two weeks, not knowing, I did the complete opposite of what I should have done... I have slammed him with numerous emails and text messages begging for answers and for us to reconcile... I love him. I think I realized today that all that did was damage things further and push him further away. Have I ruined our relationship? Is it too late to back off and make him miss me? Is it possible that he is just frustrated and needs space doesn't mean that it's over and he wants to move on with his life or is this really the end AGAIN?

Leave him alone, and let the emotional dust settle, and then make a decision to deal with your own life, without him in it.

This doesn't sound like a loving caring relationship, nor does he do his part to show he cares.

Get your own act together.

You have to take a look at what's right in your face. You have hundreds of miles separating you. He is treating you like crap by being mean. He has already dumped TWICE. What more do you want?

You need to start moving forward with you own life!! Start to hang out with friends. Go out to places and have fun. Get involved at work or school. Workout. Date other guys!! Do anything to keep yourself busy and not thinking of him.

It's over. Sorry.:(