Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 9 months now. Since we've been together there has been many different problems that we have had to face, like every relationship. But specifically there has been a lunatic of a girl that has been a level 3 stalker of mine and has been trying to get in between me and the girl I love since we've been together. A few months ago she came kind of close when she told my girlfriend that I had relations with her. The accusations are false but of course after my girlfriend gave me another chance this specific girl (the stalker) isn't her favorite person in the world.

I've tried every way to get this crazy girl to leave me alone and I think she finally will after my girlfriend texted her from my phone pretty much telling her to leave me alone. The stalker replied with "you wouldn't have your pretty girlfriend if you hadn't lied to her the last time I told her about us" thinking that it was me who had texted her. I then had to plead to my girlfriend again that I did absolutely NOTHING with this girl besides a kiss or two which took place before my relationship. She (my girlfriend) yet again gave me another chance but it seems that all trust, happiness and love toward me has stopped, she doesn't even have that " in love" look on her face or in her eyes anymore when she looks at me!

I love her to death and really want to fix this! I understand why she is upset and why this wall came up but she's not working with me.. Is it possible to fix my relationship?

You can't fix anything if she isn't willing to help, and I guess it was just too much drama, and not enough trust. I feel for you but don't ignore the obvious. The relationship had issues, and was not strong enough to with stand the intrusion of an outside person. Now you can hold on and blame the crazy girl, but that's only part of it, and not the main part.

Leave this alone guy, and maybe you will understand you maybe didn't have a strong relationship to begin with.

Sorry for your loss.

But you see, even after everything she still stayed with me! It's been a few days now and I have been busting my butt tryIng to get our relationship back to what it was. It was a really good relationship! But now I have to go through things as if I did cheat, as in like the way I'm being treated. She wants me to build everything back up basically from zero but that's hard for me because I know I didn't do anything. She says she believes me but doesn't act like she does.