My boyfriend is 26 and we have been dating 4 months.He got a new job lately and isworking till after 6 in the week and sometimes in the weekend I only get to see him on saterdag if he is not working. When he comes from work we chat for max 2 hours because he is tired. He is sweet, loving and caring and he always wants to spoil me even if I tell him he doesn't need to spoil me. But sometime he'll be mean for no reason or do things that hurts me. With his old job we use to chat more than 5 hours and he would sleep over on weekends it feels like our roads are splitting up and that there is less time for us. Any help please I love this man to bits and I don't want to lose him.

Why is he mean? What does he do?

I don't know why he is mean but he wasn't always like this... He will get irritated with me and say things that could have stayed or he would look for things to start a fight over things that's not true and things would go to a point where we don't speak and then he just say sorry and it would just start al over again.

Are you overwhelming him with talk and even pushing him into a corner with complaints that he doesn't give you enough time any longer? He might be pushing back in his own way.

No not at all I always waits for him to txt my fist when he comes home and when he tells me he's tired and he wants to sleep I tell him its fine he can go to sleep. I am trying to give him space and I am not complaining about it but he keeps saying he knows he is not giving me enough time or that he is mean to me but he doenst do anything about