I met this guy we hit it off instantly, had everything in common, mutual attraction, been talking for a couple of weeks.. then out of the blue he stops talking to me... when I question this he says he's having a lot of personal problems thrown to him at once and he prefers to be left alone when feeling like this... he says I did or said nothing wrong... I don't know him that well but I'm thinking everyone's got problems why cut off someone you supposedly like?. it makes no sense to me.. so I'm thinking he's just giving me the old its not you its me excuse... so a couple days pass and I contact him saying to just be honest what happened and he's like... "i was honest i have no reason to lie and i will see you when im feeling better..if you still want to"... after days of ignoring me now he acknowledges he will eventually see me / speak to me when he's feeling better... im thinking he just said that to calm me down and get me off his back or am I over paranoid. Im thinking I should just leave him alone and whatever happens... happens... but I really like him a lot - that would really suck for me if it turns out he just dropped me for no reason..

What's wrong? He told you he needs some time... give it to him. Be glad he was honest with you. Think about it, you have no idea what he could be going through... you don't really know him. He probably needs some time to sort things out... considering he TOLD you that. I would say if you really like him, leave him be. This guy sounds straight forward and honest, you are going to bother him away if you don't watch it. I wouldn't say he is "ignoring you", calm down and back off... if he doesn't call you, his loss.