You see I liked this one boy and I am 13 and he is also 13. How do I tell a him that I like him? What might he say / do / act. Please.. help. And how would I tell him that I like him?

He might say he likes you too. He might say he doesn't like you the way you are implying. He might say, "thanks for telling me" and not tell you at all what he feels. There's no way anyone can know.

I would probably not tell him this. You are too young to date, and can just be friends with him until you are older, like in high school.

You are at a good age to start doing fun things with groups of kids though and starting to include some boys, not boyfriends but just boys who are friends with you and the girls who are your friends. Get a group of kids together to go bowling, skating or to a movie or out for ice cream, whatever is popular in the area where you live. Or if your parents are OK with it, invite 5 or 6 kids over to your house for pizza and watch some funny movies. If you learn how to be friends with boys and get comfortable around boys, you will find that it will be easier to let them know later on if you have romantic feelings for them.

Seeker,

This question is rather simple and the answer is rather simple as well when dealing with your age group.

He will respond... I like you too or I do not like you in the same way that you like me. It may be followed by I just want to be friends or he will feel awkward and avoid you.

Remember this from now until you have reach a wise age:

You run the risk of rejection every time you tell someone you like that, indeed you like them more than just a friend.


This is one of the most feared feelings humans have. Rejection. Learn to overcome this fear and live your life with no regrets.

I have news for you.... whether he likes you back or not there will be more.