Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    amythree's Avatar
    amythree Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Oct 20, 2010, 03:41 PM
    We had a non- strings attached relationship.
    We never slept together, when he ended it, he told me he was only attracted to me physically, not emotionally, where he can fall for me.I fell in love with him. He back off and lied to me. A lot has happened between us, we argue a lot and are no longer friends. He told me he didn't want to get hurt. When I am with someone else, he tells me he cares about me and doesn't feel the same way a year later. Then he tells me he only he said, cause I wanted to hear it. He wants to moved on, but I am not sure why he lies to me so much and hides things. What should I do, advice please
    talaniman's Avatar
    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
    Expert
    		  
    #2

    Oct 20, 2010, 10:41 PM

    I think he was just waiting, and hoping to get in your pants, but sorry it hurt so much to see this guys true colors. You can move on to a better guy who doesn't have to lie and deceive you and this loser will no longer affect you.

    I am not sorry for your loss because it will get much better, you'll see.
    Devorameira's Avatar
    Devorameira Posts: 2,461, Reputation: 981
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #3

    Oct 21, 2010, 05:05 AM

    You definitely need to move on and stay away from him.

    Seems like he doesn't want to be with you, but doesn't want anyone else to be with you either.

    Don't let him control your life. Go no contact and move on.
    mmresd's Avatar
    mmresd Posts: 2,002, Reputation: 553
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #4

    Oct 24, 2010, 04:19 PM
    While there is a possibility that he might feel something for you, it is obvious that it is not enough to have someone more than what you two have had already, and if the love is not mutual you have no choice but to move one, and specially if lies are already involved it's time to drop this and move on.

    Good Luck,

    Javi
    Fr_Chuck's Avatar
    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
    Expert
    		  
    #5

    Oct 24, 2010, 04:39 PM

    Move on, obviously strings attached, and not from him.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Girlfriend wants to be single, no strings attached [ 23 Answers ]

hello everyone, my girlfriend and I have been going out for 2.5 years. We started when she was 15 and I was 17 and now I'm a junior in college and she just started her freshman year. We go about a hour n a half drive apart from each other. Weeks before I left for college she kept on teling me how...

Having another sex partner with no strings attached while living with someone else [ 52 Answers ]

I have been living with a guy for almost a year now and care about him a lot. There was someone else before we got together. The first guy and I just saw each other occasionally and texted back and forth-but never had sex. I still did it even though I moved in with this other guy. The first...

Is no strings attached sex OK [ 4 Answers ]

I just split up with my boyfriend and I have been in touch with a lad from school who I always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. He always used to ask me about sex and stuff at school and he said its because he wanted me. That wa 4 years ago. We have just been talking and he was...

Totally Free but legal no strings attached music downloads [ 10 Answers ]

I wanted to know of a web site that has totally free but legal music downloads. I've tried websites like winmx and you have to pay for those after all. Help :mad:

View more questions Search