OK so me and this girl dated for like a month then we got into a fight then her grandma died and I tried to be their for her and it didn't work out but after that we started to talk again and we fought again but now we just want to be friends but we can't because we both like each other so much I am really confused I would be with her again in a min I understand she don't want to get hurt and everything but we were taking it though the frist fight you no its just I never felt this way about anyone and I just don't know what to tell her how to be in her life still but we can't be friends because we care too much for each other should I wait and see what happens or what?? Please help

Well its all or nothing really. . If you liked her a lot you would try and make the effort to be friends again and if it doesn't work out as friend how can ye be in a relationship together?

Well if the feelings are there I would stay away. Until you have cooled down. I can't be friends with girls I like

But that's just me :) I find it to hard. I couldn't be the friend they go to telling them about there new boyfriend.

I wouldn't wait around for her to make up her mind. Make up your own mind

Regards