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infinity08 · Nov 7, 2008, 07:41 AM

Well here it goes.I have been talking a gal for quite sometime and we ve a really good relationhip between us.We understand each other very well and I was a really close friend of her until sometime bak I realised I was in love with her.she is already committed to my best friend and I ve told him that I love her too.I truly love her a lot.So should I just tell her and let her be committed with my best friend because its true love or any other opinions?. guys help me out on this..

talaniman · Nov 7, 2008, 10:10 AM

How would you feel if your best bud wanted the female you are committed to??

Let it go!

Romefalls19 · Nov 7, 2008, 10:22 AM

If you were my "best bud" you would get a best arse whopping. It's a man law to not go after another friends girl. We can even go and ask commish, Burt Reynolds about this

kctiger · Nov 7, 2008, 11:00 AM

Find your own girl. NEVER mess with a friends girl. Like Rome said, that is a manlaw and the most quick way to a broken nose.

JBeaucaire · Nov 7, 2008, 11:04 AM

Stop the "true love" stuff. This is obsessive infatuation, and there's nothing wrong with that, either. Having deep new feelings is just as hard to deal with as anything else. I'm just saying, stop the "love" drama because it doesn't help you.

So, you've told him you like her. Tell her, too, if you really want. Keep in mind that 99% of all relationships end, so even if you were to pry her away from him, it would most likely last for a time, then end. What then? You've lost two good friends?

Keep your friends. Remember to respond to feelings of infatuation only when doing so makes your life better.