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    montelee Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 30, 2010, 05:54 PM
    I think my girlfriend likes someone else
    Well I'm 17 years old and will be 18 next Tuesday I think my girlfriend cheating on me we been together for almost two years now and she say she love me and say she committed to me sometimes I believe her and sometimes I don't.I argue with her almost everyday I mean I really don't know why I do that. She say I do it on purpose but I really don't no why.She don't treat me like she use to.She doesn't say I love you know more and we rarely talk on the phone.We plan on having children when we are successful in grown.Im really thinking should I let her be and start over with a new girl friend.
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    Jun 30, 2010, 10:52 PM
    Your thougys are wise... go with your own instinct
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    Jun 30, 2010, 11:00 PM

    Have you spoken with you girlfriend? Have you asked her how she feels about the relationship andwhere it is going?

    Why do you get angry every day in order to argue? What's missing? You think she's cheating... Why?

    What you need to ask yourself is do you love her? Do you want to be with her?

    If the answer is no then break up with her. If the answer is yes then talk to her and try to work out what's going on here.
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    Jul 1, 2010, 06:01 AM

    You say you don't know why you argue so much, then maybe you should find out, and correct that as I doubt any female will want a part of that.

    I also don't know why you don't believe your g/f. Is it your insecure, or does she actually do things to make you NOT believe her.

    Then you think she is cheating, but you give no indications, or evidence to back that up.

    So I think you're the key to this kind of thinking, and actions so that means you are the solution to whatever problems your having.

    I can't tell if its YOU, or HER, or both really.
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    Jul 1, 2010, 06:04 AM

    Sounds to me like immaturity and lack of a decent communication line has gotten the best of both of you. A solid way to start here is to talk things out, like adults, and control your emotions in a rational way.
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