I think my boyfriend broke up with me for his ex-girlfriend.
Asked Jul 19, 2012, 04:26 PM
We went out for 8 months. Everything was GREAT we were happy together, did everything together but he had this ex girlfriend who was apparently his first for everything and the broke up a month prior to us going out. He stopped talking to her and then she started calling a month into our relationship. I found out and told him that if he isnít ready to move on he should let me know now before I fall to deep. He exclaimed to me that he was over her multiple times.
After that a few months later I found out he was text messaging her things that I wouldnít like of course, telling her he loves her and if him and I broke up would she get back with him. I called him out on it and he pleaded and begged for me not to leave him. He legit wrote me an essay expressing his love for me and admitting that it was hard to get over his ex but that he is completely done. Now during this time in our relationship he found out that his ex was talking to his best friend and he was pretty upset about it. Which I understand. So he stopped talking to her all together. She found a new boyfriend and me and him remained.
Now the past week things started fading. His presence wasnít the same. We spoke about it and he said he wanted to take a break. I told him that I didnít want a break because they really donít fix a problem, its better if we talk it out. I told him I felt like the reason our relationship is fading is because we really havenít gotten a chance to spend alone time with each other. He said he hasnít had the urge so that couldnít be the problem, he told me he wanted to chill, no hold, and no anything just chill. I asked him if that means he wants to be single and he said "I guessĒ. I then told him OK. And he tried to hold conversation after.
Then today he text me "hey" but I didnít respond. Now ironically his ex broke up with her boyfriend the day before him and I broke up. I heard her mom is planning a trip and being that his and her families are close since they were younger, his family is invited her, and he might be going so that means they're talking again.
I need help, I feel terrible because I canít help but to think about how he just threw everything away. Do you guys feel that he and his ex are back at it?
Last edited by talaniman; Jul 21, 2012 at 04:19 PM.