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frazzeled · Jul 28, 2011, 09:35 PM

My problem is I am in an internet relationship, which isn't the problem , the problem is I can't move on the net without him knowing about it, even when he is at work he calls me from 10 to 20 times ,on my skype , my mobile , and then text message and every time I don't answer he leaves me a long voice message telling me how much he loves me. As well as a text message to make sure I got the message.
He blows up my fb page , insisted I put married on my relationship status. We play several interactive games together . But I'm no longer the fredom to log on and speak with friends , unless he is with me.I feel like every movement I make is controlled , I mean he's never nasty or abusive , but I've lost my own identity I feel like I'm being strangled with his love , he wants me to come to him , but I fear this will get worse in the real world .ive asked for some space.but I'm not sure he can give it. Should I just disappear

J_9 · Jul 28, 2011, 10:17 PM

I call that smothered with CONTROL! This guy appears to have a serious control issue!

Your fear is right. It WILL get worse in the real world! Run for the hills and run for your life.

Get this toxic man out of your life and find someone healthy to be with.

Jake2008 · Jul 28, 2011, 11:12 PM

Delete him.

talaniman · Jul 29, 2011, 01:12 PM

You took the words right out of my mouth, DISAPPEAR forever!!

My problem is I am in an internet relationship, which isn't the problem

Oh yes it is! Get rid of it.

amicon · Jul 29, 2011, 01:58 PM

Your relationship is the problem-time to end it.

southamerica · Jul 29, 2011, 02:07 PM

You ASKED for space, and he CAN'T give it to you?

Time to unfriend him, block his Skype, and become free!

joygregson13 · Jul 29, 2011, 04:16 PM

I think this sounds very dangerouse, if I were you I would end this relationship and get your lif back, but that's just what id do , go with your instincs , but don't let him hurt you

88sunflower · Jul 29, 2011, 06:05 PM

Your first step was knowing there was an issue because you brought to our attention here. Now take this advice from us all and run or you will be back with a worse thread. That is just crazy acting in my mind. Wow. Imagine if you lived with the guy? Don't take it one day longer just walk now.

mj808 · Jul 30, 2011, 07:36 AM

Yeah, don't meet up with this guy. Ever. If you are feeling scared then its time to go. His obsessive behavior will only get worse. Time to block him from any technological outlet he can use to reach you. And if you start to feel lonely because you are no longer getting that attention (which is normal, people like attention) don't try to negotiate with him about contact again. Just leave it alone. Good luck and stay strong.