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    Apr 17, 2009, 01:19 PM
    Silent but kind of lost
    Me and my ex broke up a month ago and we decided to be friends but then stopped talking to one another, I had a dream that me and him talked sat down in a diner and both kind of realized that we are both have feelings for one another still, and in my dream we left it like that.

    Now I'm going to say that in real life we have not dated anyone, and we both said that we don't want to date anyone, hinting that only me and him. Now I'm not going to make this all long, even though I could, but whenever I did talk to him on the phone or text message I would say that me and him are still in love with each other and he wouldn't deny it or that he misses me,and knowing him he would be up front with it, if he didn't feel the same way? I also feel that that whole retrograde venus thing that is over today April 17th has something to do wit it. Need advice asap!
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    Apr 18, 2009, 07:09 AM

    Okay, I will go along with the ebbs, and tides, a relationship goes through, but without some honest communications, there is no relationship. I don't care where the moon is.
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    Apr 18, 2009, 07:46 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Okay, I will go along with the ebbs, and tides, a relationship goes thru, but without some honest communications, there is no relationship. I don't care where the moon is.
    Have to spread rep, but talaniman is right.

    It's not only about having feelings for each other. You guys can love each other at a distance but not let each other know. You guys have a huge communication breakdown. Without communication, there's no relationship.

    If that's the way you really feel, then you should be talking to each other about it and working things out.
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