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rainman00 · Dec 24, 2014, 12:15 PM

I got this ex that I care about. We were dating for a year until she said she needed a break in the relationship because emotionally she wasn't happy with where we were going. I tried to win her back but it just pushed her further away until one day friend call me and said she no longer wanted to be with me and she dating someone else now. I called her later on that day and told her to block me if she no longer wanted a relationship with me. Few minutes later she blocked my # and blocked me on Facebook as well. I was crushed but I moved on got into the dating scene again.

Few weeks later one of my friends called me and said my ex was looking for me on campus. This left me confused because she claimed to be done and couple days later I notice she unblocked my number and unblocked me on Facebook and she text me and asked did I still love her I ignored the text of course, because she was still in another relationship. I started to go on dates with this girl I was into but somehow my ex found out by Facebook stalking me I guess and she calls me cursing me out saying how she was about to come back and work things out until she found out I was dating someone else.

She goes on Facebook and Twitter starting stuff with the girl I was taking out dates calling her all sorts of names. Then she blocks me once again lol tells everybody on Twitter she 100 Percent done with me. N 3 weeks later I notice today she unblocked me on Facebook and starts liking some of my comments it's like she was announcing she was back again. Like I'm confused she claims she done and when people ask if she want me back she says no, but yet she doing all of this.

Any advice? Does she still have feelings for me or something?

talaniman · Dec 24, 2014, 12:53 PM

Naw, she just wants to keep you confused, and stop you from moving on. Block her like you should have done a long time ago, and stop letting your friends give you messages from her. You don't leave the door open for someone that dumped you guy. Or let them get back in your head.

Who needs these childish mind games? How old are you both?

rainman00 · Dec 24, 2014, 01:06 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Naw, she just wants to keep you confused, and stop you from moving on. Block her like you should have done a long time ago, and stop letting your friends give you messages from her. You don't leave the door open for someone that dumped you guy. Or let them get back in your head.

Who needs these childish mind games? How old are you both?

we both 20. One minute she wants me in her life the next she don't

joypulv · Dec 24, 2014, 01:16 PM

Keeps you hanging while she sorts out her own life. She wants you until she finds someone she is actually happy with. There's a lot of this at age 20, because half of us want commitment and half don't. 'She didn't like where you were going' is a way of saying COMMIT or else, dear darling. Girls have a stereotype of doing this more than guys because of traditional families who expect them to be married as soon as they get out of school, ready to start a family.

But she sounds too clueless about all this... not worth the drama. Find someone a little more mature, and by the 2nd month or so, you two should be TALKING about your futures, even if it's to say that you have no intention of settling down yet.

tickle · Dec 24, 2014, 04:25 PM

Very immature ploys. I remember this in grade school. Get rid of her.

talaniman · Dec 24, 2014, 05:06 PM

Just because she is confusing doesn't mean you have to be confused too. Probably drives her NUTS that you aren't chasing her, and are having fun without her. Maybe she isn't happy with the new guy, and her friends are telling her how well you are doing.

None of that matters any more, just don't let it confuse you, or you will act as whack as she does and that's no fun! Like I said,who needs this drama. The only thing that matters is she dumped you, rejected you for a second chance, and got somebody else. There is nothing confusing about that is there?

Fr_Chuck · Dec 24, 2014, 07:23 PM

She may have feeling, but it is not love. You want to block her, and keep her out of your life. You have not moved on,

Jake2008 · Dec 27, 2014, 09:41 AM

Delete her from YOUR Facebook, and get serious about letting her go. Checking on her status, and allowing her to comment on posts, just keeps the idea going that you haven't totally let her go (despite the nasty things she's done), and she hasn't let you go (despite the nasty things she's done).

If you really wanted to let her go, stop the Facebook stuff, which your friends will likely not notice. What they probably do notice, is that she's still in the picture.