[MGOMEZ]

Hi everyone. Well I have a little problem I'll try to make this as short as possible. I'm recently divorced towards the end of my marriage I cheated on my husband with a co worker,well me and this guy got really close. I mean so close we fell in love with each other. Once I got divorced me and him were still going strong,then he found out I had a "MySpace" and saw other guys flirting with me and me talking to another guy telling him I would call him. He got really upset and hurt and told me that he would forgive me but would not be able to trust me again. We continued our relationship but it was never the same. We ended it but since we still work together,every now and then we still kisses when we can. We can still have a great time together and laugh but I know he's hurting and so I'm I... I tried to date other guys after him to try to move on,but I always compare them to him and they don't come close to what he is. He found out that I was dating so he took out another coworker out to dinner... now I don't know if they're still seeing each other or what, but that tears me up inside to even think he could be with someone else no matter who it is... I still love him with all my heart and my family accept him too which is really important to me. He still tells me that he misses me and he is still in love with me but he can't be with me because he doesn't want to ever think that I could be doing wrong when I'm not with him. So I really need your help guys! What should I do??

[talaniman]

Sounds like you want your cake and eat it to. You can flirt and chat and date but expect this poor boob to be there when you want him to be, and have the gall to get jealous when he does what you are doing. Selfish. You have to many issues, and too much baggage to be happy or make someone happy. He is doing the right thing by leaving you alone, as he knows you will cheat and lie. So I commend him for not putting up with your BS, and distancing you from his life. Change yourself or sit in your own misery. Up to you.