[gunjita]

Its been 1 year and 11 mnths with my boyfriend but now I don't feel the same about him... 1 mnth back he and me had a big fight after that my love started decreasing for him now I don't love him anymore... but when I told him that I want to break up with him... he cried a whole day and was on the verge of suicide... he loves me very much but I don't feel the same now... I cnt even ignore him cause I am scared he will do some mad things like suicide but I don't want to be with him too... please help me with a solution... I don't want to repeat the break up thing again but I don't feel the same thing too I don't love him anymore and its no point making him understand that please help

[odinn7]

You can't let him control you this way. Do you really want to be with someone just because you are scared of what they will do if you leave them? You're not happy and staying because he claimed he will kill himself is not going to help either one of you. Talk to him, tell him you need to end the relationship and if he continues to cry and tell you he will kill himself, you have two choices... you can take the chance and just walk away or you can tell someone in his family that he needs help... and then walk away.

I can't say for sure that he is not serious as there are plenty of unstable people running around but I can also tell you that this is a very common tactic used to keep someone from breaking up. Do you want to remain unhappy simply because he is making you feel guilty?