[Jessicabittner]

I lied to my boyfriend many times . I just want to tell the truth. I need to tell him the truth. I really do.

[Oliver2011]

You obviously are not ready to be in a relationship if lying is a part of your game.

[Cat1864]

You haven't asked a question, but I do have an answer.

First, don't add more lies to what you already need to clean up.

Second, find time when you can sit down with him when there are few distractions and calmly explain. Tell him the truth. Then give him time and space to calm down if he needs it. Do not expect him to immediately forgive and forget. Be open to talking if he wants to talk.

Third, do not over do the apologizing. Once or twice and then it is up to him to forgive, if he can. Do not make promises that you cannot keep. Do not give up your rights to privacy, etc. as a means to appease him.

Fourth, if he cannot handle the truth or that you lied and wants to end the relationship. Let him go. In the end, begging, over the top promises and such do not keep a couple together. They only prolong the inevitable.

Good luck and if nothing else remember that lying isn't a solution to a problem. It only adds more layers to the original problem.

[talaniman]

I lied to my boyfriend many times . I just want to tell the truth. I need to tell him the truth. I really do.

Then do it, don't just say it.

[jaidjen]

Why do you feel the need to lie in the first place?