[spiderx71]

My girlfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago. She hadn't been in a relationship for several years ago friend of ours set us up. Things were amazing we hit it off right away and spent most of our time together. I noticed we were moving very fast and knowing she was less experienced in relationships I ask if she was Ok with how fast were going. She said she loved spending all this time together. After 2 months she told me she loved me and I told her I felt the same. For weeks I spent every night over then one night I was sick and stayed home. The next day she told me had time to think and was afraid and not sure what she wanted and broke up with me. I texted her couple days later told her I understood, apologized for mobbing so fast, loved her and maybe be friends some day. After week she texted back said it was her, she doesn't know what she wants and had difficult week and felt compelled to explain to me why. She also said she doesn't think being friends would work but left text open with... I text back thank you and if she ever changes her mind to call. Haven't heard from her since it's been almost 3 weeks. What do I do? Want to reach out but did that in last text. Do I wait for her to text and if don't hear from her move on. Do I wait then text again. And what do I say.

[JudyKayTee]

You left the relationship with you telling her that if she changed her mind she should contact you.

She apparently hasn't changed her mind.

The "it's not you, it's me" is a very old excuse when someone wants to end a relationship. I would not contact her.

[odinn7]

Let her go. She's not interested and going after her or contacting her will not help you... it will cause you more stress and pain.