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Daisygirl27896 · Jan 21, 2013, 04:14 PM

I need someone to look at my relationship from the outside. I been with my boyfriend for 13 to 14 long years since I was 17 years old. We were too young and had our on and off's during those years and early 20's as a result, several years later he had a daughter when I met him but then had 2 more kids while I was with him. He isn't with those girls and he loves me and we been through a lot together, a lot of loving fun caring times and he even said he was young and made mistakes.

I understand he loves me and I love him but now I feel different 13 years later. I feel things have changed, He is more miserable, he is more mean, and he puts me down a lot. I get that feeling in my stomach, I am hurt, I want to cry at times. He calls me names all the time, I can't have a normal conversation with him without him yelling at me. He tells me everything I do is wrong and my fault. His background he had 3 kids by 3 different girls and he is in a middle of a court situation before. He's been in trouble and in and out of jail years ago in his younger years. He has a hot temper. He use to be so nice, caring and loving toward me, it justs changed, is it because of his background? What he is going through in life? He is being accused of something he didn't do and going through court case now.

He wants to be with me but at the same time on day he will tell me he misses me and loves me, the next time he's mean to me on the phone asks me what I want and says leave me alone!! He keeps doing this back and forth and yells at me a lot, and hangs up on me a lot and I haven't done anything bad or mean to him. I have always been by his side! Helped him with money issues, cooked for him, did everything a good woman would do for her man but he treats me so bad? I am sad, why is he doing this to me?

talaniman · Jan 21, 2013, 04:33 PM

Its not him, he is an idiot. Its you. You have given an awful lot, and have nothing to show for it. He has taken enough and you need a long break to get your sanity back. I do mean a long break where you can do more for yourself and no more for him.

You deserve better so be better to yourself. Let him figure it out on his own. NO MORE ABUSE FROM HIM..................................NONE!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!