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Nov 7, 2012, 11:06 AM
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Bf's mother is not agreeing due to the long distance between our houses..
M hira,20 yrs old... I love a boy and he also loves me... he told his mother about me as his mother was forcng him to get married... he is 29yrs old.his home is in azamgarh and mine in meerut... his mother wants him to marry to a grl who is nearby azamgrh as for in lucknow... she is nt agreeing at all..
And he don't want to go agnst his parnts... nd so he has stopped talkng to me as before... talks a little by message... he says he loves me vry much but aftr his mother..
I can't live without him..
I can't concntrate on anythng except crying.. not even studng these days...
What to do?
Plzzz help me
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Nov 7, 2012, 11:16 AM
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I live in the US, where a 20 year old and a 29 year old do whatever they want when in love, 99.9% of the time. I'm very sorry for your situation. Your boyfriend has decided to do what his mother wants, and there is nothing you can do. I know it feels like you cannot live without him, but you can - you keep breathing and drinking enough water and eating enough food to live. It hurts, it's awful, it seems like it will never end, and time is an eternity. But many of us go through it, and we do get through it. All you can do is ask friends to keep you busy without trying to cheer you up.
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Nov 7, 2012, 11:34 AM
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Thank you very much joy for understanding me... you are right I really can't live without him...
I did'nt sleep for the last two nights... sometimes I feel that I should commit suicide because I love him truly...
I have just told about our relation to my One friend only... and we are at our home now a days... not in the hostel... so can't even tell my feelings to anyone except crying alone... very much depressed
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Nov 7, 2012, 11:58 AM
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I don't understand why a 29 year old MAN has to go against his love for a young woman in order to please his mother. Is she all alone? No father, no other siblings?
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Nov 7, 2012, 12:00 PM
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Don't know why..
And now he is hurting me a lot by giving rude replies of my messages...
He has 1 elder brother... 2 younger brother... 2 sisters...
And both mother n father
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Nov 7, 2012, 12:03 PM
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Just now I messaged him that I am missing u very much... not feeling sleepy... and he replied... go for sleep...
I felt so bad
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Nov 7, 2012, 12:08 PM
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Did you ever fall in love with someone??
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Nov 7, 2012, 04:03 PM
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Of course!
I feel terrible for you and don't know what to say. It is possible that he is trying to get you to dislike and forget him.
Maybe they are promising him a house, a job, something? Does he owe them for education or have any hold like that over him?
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Nov 7, 2012, 07:18 PM
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No he is self dependent... he is a Senior section engineer in Indian Railways...
His family depends upon him...
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