[helpmeimlost]

So my girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years we got into an agruement tonight about her talking to her ex boyfriend/baby dad I dotlnt fare that she talks to him but the last couple days whenever I come in the room she's been on the phone with him. Jealous, insurcure. Big possibilities since we got together when they were still together. She's always on face so this just leads up to our fight. She don't listen to anything I have to say in one ear and out the other it seems like she don't know how to communicate I guess. We were talking about having a baby and have been trying but tonight while were fighting she says I hate you, and I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore. Think maybe its because were fighting she tells me she hasn't felt she was in love with me for about a month or so but yet she's told me a bunch of times in that month or so that she is in love with me.. seems like a big head game to me but why am I trying to have a child with this girl when she's not even sure about us and why would she agree to trying to have one? I really just don't get it. I love her and am in love with her so what do I do?

[Fr_Chuck]

When you fight, she goes to him perhaps ?

But the "babies daddy" should be arrange to get baby and go for visit at his home, not on the phone with the baby mommy. She really has no business talking to him all the time if they are broke up and she is with you