[princess anisha]

Me and my ex boyfriend became couples for 7 years. Our 4 years that we been together is the happiest moment. We don't have any fighting or cool-off. Then time come when I need to go abroad for my work, it happens that it became a long distance relationship. I trusted him so much, so I don't bother myself that he will cheat on me because I'm holding on for his promised before I left that no matter how long it takes we will be forever.

2 years past I took him to the place that I'm working at, so we will be together. But I noticed that something changed. He wasn't sweet and concerned at me the way before. Then after a year we planned to go home to our country. He ask me if he can go ahead of me15 days before my flight.

Then when I arrived to our place he was there in the airport. While going home I ask him if there is any problem going on between us. He told me nothing, and he just said maybe we need to plan and be stable before getting married. I agree on him. And after a few days I found out that my ex boyfriend has another girlfriend. I ask him about the girl but he denied it then we broke up. Until now its been 6 months but I can still forget him for 3 years he cheated on me. Till now he never even saying sorry for what he done.

And I'm still hoping and wanting to get him back. I cried every time I remember him. How can I get him back and show him that I'm better than his girlfriend and his loss of choosing that girl? And why he was still denying that girl? Though I saw it on his FB, even though we broke-up already? What does it mean? He just don't want me to blame him in messing up our relationship before, or he still love me?

[talaniman]

You are in deep denial. He doesn't love you. And who wants someone back that's been cheating for 3 years? REALLY? Really? Really?

Cut contact with this lying cheater, and heal, so you can do better than him.