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    Kaydeesimpson Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 18, 2012, 01:53 PM
    Help! How do I get used to this?
    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. During those years he and I have trouble getting along . I mostly have trouble getting used to the fact he has close female friends. It hurts me when we are out on the weekends and he's a total social butterfly and I Defenitly take a long time opening up to people so when we go out he leaves me behind and goes off with his friends to play beer ping at parties or basketball. I'm very insecure but I'm trying to get better for us to be happy again , I feel like he's no longer interested in me when he brings girks closer to him like a best friend type thing , I feel like he will accidentally get attracted. I have make friends and they all flirt with me and in scared he will flirt with them. I'm a very attached girlfriend and I love every second with him and I want most of his attention on me but not all the time . He and I talk about this all the time and he always tells me the same thing he won't leave me he loves me and he loves me more than life and he chosses me . I feel like its all just to get me to shut up I don't believe it. Sometimes he lies to me about hanging out with this one girl I'm insecure about for example he said he was going out to PTs pub with the guys but didn't mention Porsche (the girl I'm insecure about ) was there. But I found out by stalking her . Which I do have a problem cause when I first stalked her I found out why she said that my boufriend gave her a ride home from work and he didn't tell me . I mostly found out all info that he lies about on there . That's why I'm addicted to looking at her page . He and I ha a heart to heart talk about how I want to get better and not insecure but the problem is that it's only been 2 weeks since that talk and I'm not fully better yet but he is already starting to invite her very where we go . I haven't met her yet , I'm supposed to meet her this weekend . He hopes I like her and that it helps me not be insecure by knowing her . Thanks :(
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    Jul 18, 2012, 02:12 PM
    Need help ! How can I get used o this?
    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. During those years he and I have trouble getting along . I mostly have trouble getting used to the fact he has close female friends. It hurts me when we are out on the weekends and he's a total social butterfly and I Defenitly take a long time opening up to people so when we go out he leaves me behind and goes off with his friends to play beer ping at parties or basketball. I'm very insecure but I'm trying to get better for us to be happy again , I feel like he's no longer interested in me when he brings girks closer to him like a best friend type thing , I feel like he will accidentally get attracted. I have make friends and they all flirt with me and in scared he will flirt with them. I'm a very attached girlfriend and I love every second with him and I want most of his attention on me but not all the time . He and I talk about this all the time and he always tells me the same thing he won't leave me he loves me and he loves me more than life and he chosses me . I feel like its all just to get me to shut up I don't believe it. Sometimes he lies to me about hanging out with this one girl I'm insecure about for example he said he was going out to PTs pub with the guys but didn't mention Porsche (the girl I'm insecure about ) was there. But I found out by stalking her . Which I do have a problem cause when I first stalked her I found out why she said that my boufriend gave her a ride home from work and he didn't tell me . I mostly found out all info that he lies about on there . That's why I'm addicted to looking at her page . He and I ha a heart to heart talk about how I want to get better and not insecure but the problem is that it's only been 2 weeks since that talk and I'm not fully better yet but he is already starting to invite her very where we go . I haven't met her yet , I'm supposed to meet her this weekend . He hopes I like her and that it helps me not be insecure by knowing her . Thanks :(
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    Jul 18, 2012, 02:14 PM
    How do I get used to boyfriend having female friends ?
    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. During those years he and I have trouble getting along . I mostly have trouble getting used to the fact he has close female friends. It hurts me when we are out on the weekends and he's a total social butterfly and I Defenitly take a long time opening up to people so when we go out he leaves me behind and goes off with his friends to play beer ping at parties or basketball. I'm very insecure but I'm trying to get better for us to be happy again , I feel like he's no longer interested in me when he brings girks closer to him like a best friend type thing , I feel like he will accidentally get attracted. I have make friends and they all flirt with me and in scared he will flirt with them. I'm a very attached girlfriend and I love every second with him and I want most of his attention on me but not all the time . He and I talk about this all the time and he always tells me the same thing he won't leave me he loves me and he loves me more than life and he chosses me . I feel like its all just to get me to shut up I don't believe it. Sometimes he lies to me about hanging out with this one girl I'm insecure about for example he said he was going out to PTs pub with the guys but didn't mention Porsche (the girl I'm insecure about ) was there. But I found out by stalking her . Which I do have a problem cause when I first stalked her I found out why she said that my boufriend gave her a ride home from work and he didn't tell me . I mostly found out all info that he lies about on there . That's why I'm addicted to looking at her page . He and I ha a heart to heart talk about how I want to get better and not insecure but the problem is that it's only been 2 weeks since that talk and I'm not fully better yet but he is already starting to invite her very where we go . I haven't met her yet , I'm supposed to meet her this weekend . He hopes I like her and that it helps me not be insecure by knowing her . Thanks :(
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    Jul 18, 2012, 02:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Kaydeesimpson View Post
    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. During those years he and I have trouble getting along . I mostly have trouble getting used to the fact he has close female friends. It hurts me when we are out on the weekends and he's a total social butterfly and I Defenitly take a long time opening up to people so when we go out he leaves me behind and goes off with his friends to play beer ping at parties or basketball. I'm very insecure but I'm trying to get better for us to be happy again , I feel like he's no longer interested in me when he brings girks closer to him like a best friend type thing , I feel like he will accidentally get attracted. I have make friends and they all flirt with me and in scared he will flirt with them. I'm a very attached girlfriend and I love every second with him and I want most of his attention on me but not all the time . He and I talk about this all the time and he always tells me the same thing he won't leave me he loves me and he loves me more than life and he chosses me . I feel like its all just to get me to shut up I don't believe it. Sometimes he lies to me about hanging out with this one girl I'm insecure about for example he said he was going out to PTs pub with the guys but didn't mention Porsche (the girl I'm insecure about ) was there. But I found out by stalking her . Which I do have a problem cause when I first stalked her I found out why she said that my boufriend gave her a ride home from work and he didn't tell me . I mostly found out all info that he lies about on there . That's why I'm addicted to looking at her page . He and I ha a heart to heart talk about how I want to get better and not insecure but the problem is that it's only been 2 weeks since that talk and I'm not fully better yet but he is already starting to invite her very where we go . I haven't met her yet , I'm supposed to meet her this weekend . He hopes I like her and that it helps me not be insecure by knowing her . Thanks :(
    Well you better learn fast, because if he's any sort of guy... he's not going to put up with t for very long.

    People can and do have friends of the opposite sex. MOST people do. I've dumped EVERY female I ever dated that was like that.

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