[ihateyoou]

So this girl messaged me saying that her and my boyfriend have been talking how he was unhappy with me and how he was over me and wanted out. Well she and him have been hanging out and spending the night with each other while dating me. He had just moved out Thursday and told me he loves me gave me a hug and kiss and said he's not breaking up with me. He doesn't know what he wants.

Well he ignored me the last three days. Finally I tried to get a hold of him to break up with him. He finally texted me saying you are no good for me, I don't want you. That's why I've been ignoring you we are over. I feel better without you. This time I mean it. Stop calling texting bugging me.

He loves me but not in love with me. I won't hear from him maybe a friendly hello that he has moved on as should. I said goodbye so then I texted him back saying you'll come back around and he never responded.

My question is what do you think? Will he be back around? He did technically cheat on me with this girl. They're spending the night together and everything and this is the third time we have been through this. He came back the first two times. What's your opinion? He has told me before he will always come back to me. I don't know. Do you think you can truly be over someone after dating them for 2 and half years in a couple days?

[talaniman]

Sure he will be back,to cheat and leave again. That's what he has been doing,and that's what he will always do.

Unless you stopletting him.

[Alty]

The past is a great predictor of the future. Will he come back? Maybe, and then he'll get tired of you again, cheat again, leave again, come back again, get tired of you again, cheat again, leave again, come back again, get tired of you again... do you see a pattern?

So I guess it depends on what you want. Are you happy living your life like this?

He's a liar and a cheater. I for one wouldn't want that in my life, but obviously you do. So wait, the cheating liar will be back, only to cheat and lie again. It may take longer than this, but since you're so desperate for him, it shouldn't be too hard to wait the months, maybe years, for him to come back this time. After all, he has to run out of women to screw with sooner or later, and he knows you don't mind him screwing with you, so you, he'll be back, you're his safety net, until something better comes along.

Good luck with that.