[collie_man]

My ex and I have been over for about 2 weeks now and I really miss here. I am going craz because I don't know why we are not together anymore. She just started ignoring my calls, and when I confronted her she said everything was fine lets just talk but every time she wants to talk she never goes through with it. What do I do never talk to her again or try and find out what happened?

[Skell]

She appears as though she is taking an immature and game players approach here t breaking up with you. It is a measure of the type of person she really is, and I know right now your hurting and this will be of little consolation to you but if this is the way she treats you then in the long run you will be better of without her.

If you have made a genuine attempt to talk to her like a mature adult and she has rejected that opportunity then sadly there is nothing you can do.

You really have no option than to just stop worrying about her and what she is doing and begin to take care of you.

Talk to friends and family, exercise, eat healthy, treat yourself with love. It isn't a nice experience but there are loads of posts here where people have been in your shoes and come out the other side a much healthier person.

Go and read some old posts on this subject to see for yourself and also understand the best way to help yourself recover!

[SBowman]

I agree with Skell. If she won't be mature and responsible about this, then don't think about it.

[Teaching]

I would honestly give her some space. I think this will help the situation. If there one thing I have learned in all my experiences is that "sometimes when we distance ourselves from a situation it is better for them and for us.

I know how hard it is "believe me", however it may push her away more and give her more power if you pursue. You know the situation best in the end.

[s_cianci]

I'd back off and move on. She's avoiding you for some reason. I can't begin to guess why that is but continuing to pursue her and giving the impression of being all needy and clingy will only serve to push her away even further. In fact, that may be the main reason why she's avoiding you as it is. Either way, I'd write this one off. Live your life for you, without worrying about her.

[talaniman]

Take a deep breathe and back all the way off. Accept that this is what she wants and leave her alone.

[Lowtax4eva]

I agree with most of the above, move on, find someone better. If she never gave a reason for the breakup she didn't have much respect for you anyway