[chansook]

He is 24, and me 17. His personality is hard to guess, he is mature and arrogant, He never says "I love you" to me, never sweet talk, he cares about me he said but he never show. We've been dating for like a month, and I asked him out, I changed everything for him, like learn how to cook, massage him when he tired. But we don't have anything to talk about no matter in person or text or on the phone. I am kind of like a little kid sometime, I am so confused.. I don't know if I am important to him or not. Can anyone tell me what to do? I couldn't think of anything to say about this relationship, please comment and ask about the problem between me and him.

[cheesey14]

Im sorry to say but if he don't show you love and you have nothing to talk about with him, then he may not be the one. Ask him about himself and if he won't tell you, tell him it may be best to break up.

[Fr_Chuck]

I would say he may care about sex with you, if it has went that far, I am sure he likes having someone cook for him.

But no, from what little you have said, it sounds like he enjoys using you not loving you

[chansook]

He said he haven't go out with a girl about 2 years already, he said he didn't get used to having a girlfriend yet, I told him that I won't break it up easliy.. Cause I went through so many relationships before, I have no one to trust in my life, beside one is my truth friend , she will stay with me and everything.. But I need more people to help me out of this surtuation..

[talaniman]

You do all that after a month? Seems to me you should be letting him chase you a bit and maybe just be friends and get to know each other?!

But to be fair, what guy wouldn't just let you do things for him, and enjoy it, but after one lousy month you expect love from a stranger?? Heck you barely can communicate so maybe its you moving way to fast.

Too much, Too fast, Crash and burn!!!

Slow down, stop giving your stuff away, and let him do some chasing, and earn your attention.