[brokenhearted93]

I've been very depressed for the last couple days, not randomly its been building up for a few weeks. This new guy at my bfs job has been causing a lot of problems. He tells my boyfriend to check out other women and has asked him to have a threesome with his wife. Now, I don't think my boyfriend would cheat but I can't stop this pain. I have horrible pain in my chest and feel sick to my stomach. I have been crying and its aggravating him when he usually comforts me. Hes more worried about his friends feelings than mine. I just don't know what to do or think, we have been together almost 2 years and I don't want to have wasted all this time. Can anybody help, or give me advice please?

[Darkangelxx]

Ok , if you feel that he has cheated on you then maybe he has and just doesn't want to tell you an if he cares more about his friends feeling that ia crossing the line you should confront him on this and try your hardest to get him to understand

[talaniman]

I am going to assume that your boyfriend is the one telling you all this, or do you work there and have first hand knowledge that all this is going on? Do they hang out together a lot? Does he hangout at his house? Or is this just talk from him.

I really do need to know where all this fear is from, YOU, HIM, or actual facts.

[0rphan]

I think if you have heard all of this information from your boyfriend,then he could be testing the water waiting to see your reaction.

It could also mean your boyfriend is so secure within your relationship, that he feels he can tell you anything,you'll understand.

However, your reaction to this information tells me, that you do not feel secure with your boyfriend or the relationship you have with him,any minor blip between the two of you and the foundations of your relationship crumble.

Clearly there is no trust there... after two years there should be.

My advice... move on don't waste any more time.