[afisherofmen]

Ok, so there's this guy that I'm absolutely in love with, and he feels the same way about me. Well I was dating someone else when for a while, so he got a girl friend too. All the while we still were talking on the phone every night, and one night it just was to unbearable for both of us, and we told each other how we felt. Well I was already going to break up with my boyfriend when I found out about this, and so I did. But he won't break up with his girl friend. He says that he doesn't want to hurt her and she's done nothing to deserve them to break up. He says that he wouldn't choose her over me, and that he's so sorry about all of this. I guess I'm wondering what I should do... We've talked every night for half a year. He's one of my best friends and Im one of his, but he really hurt me and now that we know how we feel about each other, its hard for me to be around him and not know what he's feeling.
So..
Question one
What should I do?

Two
What do you think he's thinking.

[LBP]

Same advice as last time...

He sounds like a bit of a coward (this can describe many people, I've learned - seems like less and less of an insult!) who doesn't know how to express himself... You really sound like a girl who wants what she can't have...

If he really wanted you he'd do what he'd have to do...

You're no good for each other, right now. I know it's hard but you need to involve yourself with something other than him. He'll have to make his own decisions, then - if you force him one way or the other you're both going to end up regretting it.