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Ajk4wheelin · Apr 15, 2012, 12:39 PM

Okay so when me and my boyfriend just started to go out he flirted with my best friend and he told her that he would break up with me for my friend... She told when he did and me and him broke up.

Then we got back together and he told me it would never happen again and that he wouldn't talk to her anymore. Then track started and they both did track so they see each other a lot. And apparently my best friends is like your boyfriend is so amazing and funny.

Then they went down to state for track and she and he have been really shady whenever I bring up track.. I feel like they like each other. But I don't want to confront them about it and then find out I was wrong. What do I do?

talaniman · Apr 15, 2012, 12:59 PM

I don't understand why you would take this fellow back since he went behind your back before with this friend. Maybe you have some left over suspicions about him, who wouldn't, so pull your friend aside, and talk, NOT confront, and see what's happening.

What are they doing that's shady?

Ajk4wheelin · Apr 15, 2012, 01:04 PM

Well my friend told me should would keep an eye out on him to make sure he didn't cheat on me at Michigan... But when I asked her about if she was just so happy like him and her are best friends and I was like well did he flirt withcanyone and she was like noo and hurried up and changed the subject then I brought it up with my boyfriend and he maybe stayed on the phone with me for like 5 minutes then he went to bed... idk if he really did. But usually he stays on the phone with me for like 2 hours or more. Then my best friend told me that he snuck out of his hotel room at like one to go hang at this one dudes room and she was there... and my boyfriend told me he was going to bed at 10... Idk I just have a feeling that they are hiding something

talaniman · Apr 15, 2012, 01:15 PM

I don't think its worth the drama, nor worth having a guy you have to have watched when he is away. I would never trust HIM for anything ever.

I guess you need someone to watch the watcher huh? Not good when you can't trust your fiends, and can't trust your boyfriend either.

Ajk4wheelin · Apr 15, 2012, 01:16 PM

Yea ik but I don't want to lose him I love him I just don't know what to do

talaniman · Apr 15, 2012, 02:15 PM

I feel you, I really do. It's a tough position to be in when you have strong feelings for some one you don't really trust. You hope they do right by you, but you are suspicious they won't. It makes you insecure, and afraid, and that's no way to enjoy yourself, and its hard to walk away too.

Believe me I know.

Ajk4wheelin · Apr 15, 2012, 02:16 PM

Then what should I do

Sypher360 · May 30, 2012, 12:11 AM

Originally Posted by Ajk4wheelin

then what should i do

I know you Love him But you deserve more then friends and your boyfriend treating you like this the mental place your in now is the one I'm in and it's not a good place to be Think about a very happy moment and see if he can be the one to make you that happy or is he going to tell you that he slept with your fiend when he snuck out that night . It's totally your decision but seriously think about it you do deserve more.

talaniman · May 30, 2012, 09:39 AM

Walk away! Learn to deal with your feelings a whole lot better.