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mgmart86 · Mar 1, 2012, 08:26 AM

In October my fiancé and I broke up. She got pregnant, she decided to have an abortion, we had a lot of things to work on before we where ready to be parents. I fully supported her I'm very pro choice. Needless to say my parents were not. She got some pretty cruel texts from my mom. I was called a lot of things by my parents as well. She broke up after we didn't talk for a couple couple months. It was really rough on me, she contacted me on new years. We Hung out and talked all the time for two weeks.

Out of no where she says she just wants to be friends. So we go back to no contact. Last Thursday I get a call we talk and she says she still loves me. Hang out and talk all week end just like we were back together, then out of no where again she calls it off because her parents now don't like me, and she doesn't want to deal with mine.

I know she's dated a couple guys since we broke up. While I understand her worries, at the same time I'm sick of going through this. I love her so much, and I don't doubt she still loves me. Is this one of those situations where too much has happened, time to just let it go? Or just give it more time, and see what happens?

kcarrive · Mar 1, 2012, 11:07 AM

Women are fickle people. She went out with a few dudes and realized that they were not what she really wanted because in her heart you are. However, with the big question in her mind is... how can this work with two families that do not like one another just like romeo and juliet. I think you guys should have a sit down together and really figure out what you both want, family excluded! There is no real reason why two people shouldn't be together just cause their parents heard the worst part of the relationship instead of the good. Typical, people call when they are sad or hurt. All it comes down to is, don't bring up the families and how they feel, if you are in love, then do what your heart tells you to and give it one more round.

talaniman · Mar 1, 2012, 04:59 PM

How old are you both? Its really hard when families on both sides are involved and hate you both. I would say to cool it, and let the emotional dust settle for you both, and your families.

Sad because pro choice or not, she may need emotional support for a while, or at least some one to talk to. So be a bit more understanding if nothing else.