[mark90]

We had couple of fights before she got pregnant what should I do? Was love on a first sight, very strong, we were seining each other almost every day, but after a while we start having small stupid fights over her sister. She is envious because she has no boyfriend and all that. She is older then her, doesn't go out, and gets very depressed because she wants to get settled and all that, Adding to that my jealousy we where going no where.

Recently we found out that she is pregnant into the 8th week and we decided we will have no more fights because of sake of the baby, but recently we had a bigger fight over my jealousy and I admit it that I try to check her out if she loves or not, but I did it because she completely changed,and she told me that she need space and time to think. After a week we are back together but she end up telling me that her feelings toward me are down, and that she needs time to go back to normal, to the stage where she was before our last fight. And that I need to prove her that I trust her and that I am only one who can ruin what we have.

The thing is I feel like she is day by day getting more and more colder toward me,we don't text each other as we did before. We don't see each other as we did before. Its like she doesn't enjoy my company any more, when I ask her does she loves me she said what do you think.

I want this to work out,I want to life with you,SO WHY I AM NOT GETTING THIS FROM HER :(,is it because of the pregnancy or she is just giving her time to get strength to break with me? I realize what I did and I am changing that but I feel like this is one way road that nothing is going to change between us :(. Should I give up and save both of us trouble or should I try harder for us to work out? She give me last chance and she clearly said that she wants us to work out but that I need to change, I am doing that but as the time pass by she is getting colder and colder :(

Additional Details
As I said we both agreed to move and start from point zero. She said that she loves me, and if I change my paranoia we will be grand, and I am really trying to in prove myself, she is send me sms and sometimes calling me but not as usual as before, and if I send a sms with some feelings into it she doesn't reply on it. When we are together we rarely kiss, so I don't know what else should I do. I love her and I know that she loves me but I am afraid that all of our fights and my jealousy it take too much out of us. I hope that we can work this out :(

[talaniman]

Harshness Warning


If you stop acting like a selfish kid and stop that jealousy crap (jealousy is a sign of fear, envy, and selfishness), then you will be fine. She is pregnant you big goof! Of course she has changed. Tend to her needs and put yours aside until the baby is born then help her heal from the biggest, most life changing event in her, and your life.

In short, grow up and get a grip. You don't have to act like a kid unless you want to. So don't!