[rizeey]

My story is a bit weird. Me, and my ex boyfriend are relatives. But we had not seen each other for a long time. Then we met on Facebook and started chatting with each other. After few months we met at a family function, we just smiled looking at each other. Later on he found out my phone number he started calling me. We started talking to each other for hours. We started sharing with each other about our past and everything. He also started showing his interest in me.

After sometime I only proposed him. He said yes and asked me if in the future our relation goes well will I marry him or not. I was really happy so I said yes. I am an impatient person so I started talking about our future and all, and even he use to respond to it.

On 3rd day after proposing I asked him to met me. Actually we stay in different cities so he had to come all over to meet me. I took him to one of my friends place and as we met I hugged him tight. He took it a wrong meaning and asked me can we have sex. I allowed him to have sex. (yes! I had sex on my very first date.). We knew everything about each others past. But after that date he changed... He started fighting with me for small silly reasons and also he said he is not sure whether we can marry or not.

After that we were suppose to meet after 15 days. We had planned for night out, but at last moment he said he can't come because he wants to go to pick his mom. I felt bad and I fought with him but then at night I only called him to say sorry but he said he wants to break up with me. I didn't find any reason for breakup.

He said I'm fake, selfish ,desperate etc etc. It's 6 months for our breakup, and I can't get over him. I was never mad for any other guy like I'm mad for him. Please suggest..

[talaniman]

How old are you both and what kind of relatives are you? I doubt you can get over a life time of strong feelings after only 6 months. I think its more realistic to think in terms of a few years, but with the help of friends, family, and support, slowly you will handle it better than you have so far.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes and where are you at> What culture is this?

And who asks someone to marry them when they first meet and haven not even dated?

It sounds like you had totally different plans than he did