[justme005]

Hi again.

So, I went out last week and met this really cute guy at a local bar. He is older than me and I graduated with his sister, so I somewhat knew who he was. I was a little buzzed, and brave, so I went up to him and initiated conversation. For the rest of the night we chatted together, and it was like 3 am, so we hugged goodbye at the end of and ended up kissing briefly, as well. That night we texted. I said, I like you, and he's like I think I like you too. He was saying, you're too sweet and tomorrow is too far away to talk again. So whatever - I was happy, I really like him. Our night was great! I couldn't wait to see him again.

So the next day comes, and he doesn't text (like he said he would). So, I waited most of the day and text him that night. A very simple conversation. But he acted like last night didn't happen or something. You think he would have asked me out again, or struck conversation, anything!

A few days later I finally said something like when can we hang out again? And he responds, "oh we will, we will." . Then a few days later he texts me at like 12 am and asks if I want to go to the bar for a drink. So I go. And it was nice, but his friend was with him. So we couldn't really get anywhere! Not even a hug! He texts me after and says, "thanks for stopping by. You're great company" or something like that. I DON'T GET THIS DUDE. Why is he jerking me around? Does he not want to see me? What do I do? I really like him, and I thought it was clear! I text him occasionally, but mostly I wait for him. And he just sucks. If he just wants to be friends he should say something!

Should I give up here? HELP!

Justme

[talaniman]

So, I went out last week and met this really cute guy at a local bar.

There is no way you should be waiting for him to contact you, or chasing him in any way! Come on, you expect hugs and kisses from a guy from a bar, after a week??

Slow your roll, and get the stars from your eyes, why don't you. No body stops there life and jumps into the arms of a stranger, known stranger, but still a stranger, after a week. You hung out, him and a friend. That's not the start of anything yet.

TO MUCH, TO FAST, crash and burn.

You are much to eager, and have high expectations of a meeting at a bar, a hug, and a kiss.

Above all don't chase the guy, or text even, him make the moves, and if he doesn't, do your own thing like you been doing.

Keep it real, and stay calm. You are moving wAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAy to fast. What's the hurry?