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gothika · Jan 3, 2012, 09:37 AM

Okay so let's take it this way, it's been a long time now since me and my ex broke up. I want to know why, or maybe I'm just not that contented with how everything happened. 3 Years has already passed and we went on our different lives but from time to time, we still say 'Hi' on Facebook but it would just be until there. So here's how it happened.

We were so madly in love when we were together, everything was so perfect and everyone around us said it was perfect and it's so dreamy by just looking at us together. We spend almost every night together, we're not even the 'boring' type of couple since we usually do a lot of things to enjoy and drink out with friends, also to enjoy the company of other people and our families.

It was just when I was becoming paranoid and every time we fight, he'll come home right away leaving his class. I don't know how to continue this but it's been 3 years now, I already have a family of my own and he's still single and never had a girlfriend ever since we broke up. I could still see that he's affected whenever we're talking.

Why do I feel this way?

talaniman · Jan 3, 2012, 11:24 AM

Can I ask what's going on in your relationship that has you thinking of an ex from 3 years ago?

How old are you both NOW?

I could still see that he's affected whenever we're talking.

That's what I see as a huge problem, you have remained in contact with each other, and I can bet its not just saying hi, and bye either. I don't think its healthy to still be so emotionally attached to an ex for so long. Maybe you feel sorry for him, or he makes you feel sorry for him, but its still a case of not letting the past go completely where he is concerned.

That's not even fair, or healthy to your family NOW, is it?

Sumitkumar7266 · Jan 3, 2012, 12:06 PM

Talaniman is right.Now all should matter is your family.If he is single,he will also get someone.You should not be contacting your ex if you are in any other relationship.It's three year and now it's very easy for you to get out of this problem.That will be good for you,your family and him.Don't contact him.