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    redneckchick Posts: 23, Reputation: 5
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    Feb 9, 2007, 11:51 AM
    Was my boyfriend wrong?
    I had a myspace account. And just about all my friends were guys and my boyfriend got pissed and started fighting with me about it. I the type of girl who gets along with guys better than girls and my boyfriend just didn't understand that. So just to make him happy and stop all the fight I just delected my account on myspace. So was he worry. If any guys could answer this for me so I can get the guys point of view. I don't mind if girls answer it.
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    Feb 9, 2007, 11:58 AM
    Welcome to my neck of the woods- my husbαnd is somewhαt like thαt when it comes to other men... if you only hαd guys on your list then yα I'd kindα see his point of view (if it wαs him thαt hαd αll girls--pretty ones I meαn--- wouldn't you be bothered?)... it's normαl for α guy to get jeαlous αnd α little protective αs long αs it dosen't escαlαte to being controlling αnd possesive..
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    Feb 9, 2007, 12:08 PM
    I think this goes along with the whole insecurity thing. He is insecure about himself and that you may want to date or talk to all those guys. Maybe I am wrong here but that's how people act when they are insecure.
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    Feb 9, 2007, 12:35 PM
    This is all about insecurity.

    Your boyfriend is so worried you might find a "better" guy that he doesn't want you to talk to any guys on MySpace. He's so worried about it that he doesn't trust your word when you say you are simply the kind that "gets along with guys better than girls."

    This is something you'll have to work out with him. Either you are trustworthy and he trusts you, or there is no relationship.

    Left unchecked, the next stages of this controlling personallity will insist that you do not talk to other guys at a party, or at the mall, or anywhere unless he's with you... and eventually work its' way to the point where he will forbid you to have any male friends whatsoever! Of course... That might only be the case until he finds someone "better"...
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    Jan 18, 2012, 03:02 AM
    Thank you slapshot for your opinion. I see what your saying. Ganna speak to him. I just hope he will talk about it with me. And I don't see him changing either.

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