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caminem · Oct 25, 2011, 06:03 PM

We have been living separate for a month since we both needed to visit our family.
We talk on the phone, email, chat almost everyday to communicate each other. I miss him so much but we are doing fine. But... He asked me to send my naked picture because he misses me so much. I was hesitating in the beginning, but I sent him my pictures and he was happy about it. Then , He asked me that I want to his naked pictures. I honestly never wanted his naked pictures. I think men and women are differnet. I don't get turn on by his naked pictures. I am not thinking to tell him the truth because obviously, he wants to send me the his pictures. What do you think ladies? Should I just let him whatever he wants? And acting like I am happy about the pictures?

mmresd · Oct 25, 2011, 06:16 PM

If he wants to send you something, why not?

Fr_Chuck · Oct 25, 2011, 08:11 PM

Tell him yes, he will never understand, that you would not want it.

I always suggest one things before they send theirs. If you break up in a month, or a year or two years. It may decide to send a copy to "who knows who"

Kahani Punjab · Oct 25, 2011, 08:21 PM

Caminem

Welcome to this beautiful site, first!

I personally would not tell him that I do not want such snaps. If he sends, let him send, as it will at least give him tons of (or, a little less or more) joy and satisfaction. Let him do it, I would suggest, as it will show that you really love him. He is not going to send the pictures for you to see, but only to make him feel that his girlfriend has seen him nude too. These feelings are the precious moments or the rareties of love, sometime, to some. Moreover, all persons are different. So, do not judge a person, from what he does. Sometimes, biological, bio-chemical, psychological and physical needs become compulsions.

talaniman · Oct 26, 2011, 12:21 PM

While its great to share pictures and emails and such, you better be careful with sharing sensitive stuff you don't want others to see. As far as your boyfriend sending YOU nude pictures, why not, file them away in a safe place and let him return the favor. All he has to know is you love anything he sends, with, or without clothes.

If the relationship is fine, then you can be more honest in person without hurting his feelings.

vanheart · Oct 26, 2011, 04:25 PM

You both decided to split & visit families?

What's your plan & status now?

Are you getting back? When?

Or is this a break? Mutual.

How long have you been together?