[hannah f]

I was with a guy for 2 and a half years and we broke up about 2 months ago. It was a mutual break up. We were in love but one of my guy friends kissed me so basically I cheated. So me and my boyfriend at the time broke up even though we were in love. Well its been 2 months since the break up. I got thought I was over him until I saw him at school. We both are in college and go to the same university. It's a huge campus and we don't even know each others schedules so we can't run into each other on purpose. Well since these 2 months I see him all the time. I saw him 3 times and I also saw his brother. That's a total of 4 things in 2 months. He doesn't love me and I don't love him but we both really care about each other. Why do we keep running into each other? I don't think its coincidence because when we do see each other its really random and its in places that we usually wouldn't be. The 1st time we saw each other I wasn't even planning to go to the place I saw him but I ended up going because I felt something inside of me that told me to go there, and there he was right in front of me. The 2nd time was the same situation. I usually park my car on the opposite side of the campus but one day I randomly decided to park closer to the library and as I'm walking across the street there he is. The 3rd time was the same thing. We saw each other in the parking lot. And today I saw his brother on another campus. (I go to 2 different campuses) when I was walking to my car on the 2nd campus I saw his brother driving away. I keep seeing him and his family... I believe everything happens for a reason but I don't know why this keeps happening.

I should add that this is not the same guy I was talking about in my other posts.

[mmresd]

It means that you should change the places you are used to visiting.

Ignore the coincidences, if this is happening is because you attend the same school, don't make something out of nothing.

[talaniman]

Its like you buy a car, and then see it everywhere because now you notice cars like yours. Weird, but I doubt its something supernatural. You just notice what you are familiar with. Same school, so you are bound to see each other.

Unless sub consciously, you are looking for him. No telling.

[vanheart]

Probably because you are still thinking about him.

So what? It doesn't matter, and it isn't some cosmic sign.

Other than seeing him causes you grief.

Big campus. Big city. Big world. Whatever.

How about not giving a crap if you see him or his brother.