[riyadbank50]

Dear all ,
I need you help here,, my story like romio & julite
Im 30 and my girlfriend is 24 and we have been together for neary 4 years.
She live in Indonesia and I live in another country ,

We deal to married but because the rules of the government that they request agreement to agree

About this married from my country but my country not agree , we stay binding like that about

Almost 2 years , during that I visit her many times we smile we have fun with her family,,
Even I bring her job in bank for her , but after that she become very busy and under push also .

However , since last week she avoid my call, sms , and when ask some friend of her , to ask her "

why ?"

He said "she avoid my calling because i push her to married quickly and she need time to think "

I send after 5 days flowers to her office then she sms me "thank u for the flowers"
Then I send her flowers yesterday again with card I say in it "i can't live without you"
But still I didn't receive any update from her ,

I saw that she have face book , she contact her friends , but I didn't see our pic inside her page

.

What should I do now ,
Should I send flowers or wait for 1 week to give her time or what good idea,,
Should I make page in Facebook and I put our pic and type to her so can all her friends see our

Pic , or should I type to all her friends that I love this girl much much ?

Please help in this case...
Regards

[talaniman]

Maybe back off the marriage/romance idea, and be more friendly, and intellectually engaging, as the distance makes the romance, and flowers deal a bit empty since you are not there, and can't follow up with actions to match your gestures. It appears also that she doesn't want to get married right now, but you do, and that's causing conflict, so stop doing it.

Since distance, and circumstances are keeping you apart, then stop pressuring her about marriage, and romance, like your friend said. Romance, and communications are difficult in long distance relationships.