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dilluk27 · Apr 27, 2011, 11:48 AM

HI... am 27 and my girlfriend 19 years.. she proposed me first.. I was thinking ?whether is she attracted on me.. or she really loves.. after two years she started flirting and erotically she abused with me.. I din't respond for two years.. after looking into her sincerity then 2years later I said o.k. whether both were connected physically but not heartfully.. now she is studying engineering.. she got new friends and colleagues then slowly she rejected me.. am not supposed to cheated her.. I want to marry her.. but she denies me.. the main thing was I connected with her physically... if not, I will not memorise... she is not noticing my love and affeection.. she was connecting her classmates and seniors easily... she dint' even tex,phone,chat with.. am almost fed up with her behaviour and character... and she cheated me?I explained so many times to change her mentality but she can't... what else I can do? Whether can I leave her.. give me sugestion ***?

ken007nielsen · Apr 27, 2011, 12:11 PM

Is it possible for you to type that again? I am having a very hard time making heads or tails in your question.

But from what I understand: You two were dating then she cheated on you?! And you called the relationship off, then after 2 years of her continuosly trying you get back with you, you accepted and you are now together.
Now the issue is, that you are not sexually active and she doesent text you nor does she give you any sort of attention.

So you want to change how she is as a person?

mmresd · Apr 27, 2011, 03:18 PM

I think that instead of keeping this off and on relationship, why don't you leave her, move on with your life, and go find someone who actually wants to be with you? It seems like you two have been playing cat and mouse this whole time...

Good luck,
Javi

talaniman · Apr 27, 2011, 08:00 PM

Dude, if you and your lady cannot get it together and you both can be happy, you really don't need to be together.

And why are you with some one who "erotically abused" you? I think you mean seduced you. Well you let that happen.

If you don't like the way a partner treats you, and if telling them does not make the changes you want, you tell them that too, on your way out of their life.