[sam_Legend]

It's about a girl the only thing I have is feeling... I have never contacted her directly even I see her everyday... the problem I feel something, and it kills me, I have chosen to ignore it for 2 years,honestly, but it still emerging... I know it's wrong to just say I feel she needs me cause it's not logical but that what happened, so how to get rid of this, because sometimes thinking in that just interfere with my progress...

[adviceishere]

Would you like to date this girl? If so, why do you need to forget about her? Why don't you ask her out.. or is she taken?

[sharper11]

Go talk to her. Ask her out. It's been two years man, you need to act on it.. for closure at least. If she says yes I like you too, than cool, if not, at least you know you can stop thinking about her.

It's unhealthy to obsess over someone like this. So get to it, go talk to her and see where it goes. DO NOT be sad if it doesn't go anywhere.. just accept it and feel good that you got it off your chest.

[sam_Legend]

You, I forget she has already seeing somebody... anyway, I am not suitable for here,there is too mismatches, I just want to know if I feel something dose it necessarily the other got the same or something near what you got or it's just a delusion, another thing there is hundreds other than her I have seen why still think about her while she don't show something real. Finally I accept the idea that I don't need her anymore but I do need to get rid of thinking of her, if I do so I manage to be free for about 3 days then something happened I feel it just pull me back.
Well, thank you in advance.

[sam_Legend]

Seems a good solution, though am quit sure that she will say no "apparently", the reason I haven't did this.. till now, I may reconsider. Thank you..

[amicon]

So,that puts a different spin on it-she's seeing somebody.

Then I suggest you leave it be-and get busy doing things that will distract you from your feelings.

[talaniman]

You must not be happy with what your doing in your own life if you let the fascination for a cutie pie you see everyday haunt your thoughts.

But I get the same feelings for a hot news anchor on TV, love her, but she is unavailable.

BUT... its a hot fantasy, Shhhh, don't tell the wife.

Don't make this a big deal, change the focus, or the channel.

[sam_Legend]

Thank all of you...
amicon I will do anything that will divert the flow of thoughts...
Senior talaniman I will change the channel even I would delete it
And like laura pausini said "it's just a matter of time am sure"
Thank all of you it was really helpful..

[amicon]

Hey,Sam,good luck!

[sam_Legend]

Thanks buddy...

[mmresd]

If you are feeling something, that is great. If you have never talked to her, then she probably doesn't even know your name. She has someone so she is automatically out of your hands. But you can always wait until she is available.

Good luck,
Javi