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    ithappend Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 4, 2011, 11:50 PM
    My ex tries to get near me
    I broke up with my ex last year ,after that we remained friends and in the meanwhile he got entered into another relation ,last month he broke up with her as well and he told me this . We usually meet once or twice a month after our breakup,and during his new relation . Now suddenly he has changed all focus onto me and tries to do sexy talk with me .which I can't bear at all. Last week he tried to be physical with me... I let him did wt ever he wanted but suddenly on the verge I got into senses and told him that this is not guud. Please help me how to tackle this relation now.
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    vanheart Posts: 2,806, Reputation: 708
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    Feb 6, 2011, 12:55 AM
    Don't hang out or talk with him ever again.

    Can't you see? He left you, had someone else. That didn't work out, so his puppy a$$ came looking for who will have him.

    You. And you took the bait.

    I hope you don't want to be that girl.

    Be seconds. Not Firsts. Or thirds. etc...

    He doesn't really want you, just the next thing.

    Let him be. You are way better. Show that by leaving him in the dust.

    That will empower you. And help understand what you want in a guy.

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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Feb 6, 2011, 10:59 AM

    Don't get mad at him because you have allowed this behavior. That's why when you broke up, you should have gotten out of his life, and his business, and gotten new friends, and different things to do. Its not to late to do that now is it?
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    Feb 14, 2011, 07:49 PM
    Hi
    Don't let him use your body. If he really liked you for you, you wouldn't have broke up!
    If he does that again, stop him. Tell him how you relationship is over and done with. Don't say as mean as it souds here, but say that. I am very new to this so I hope I helped a little.
    Bye! Hope you figure everything out

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