[KykyV]

Well the only reason we broke up is because his mother beats him just because he is with me. I told him to go live with his dad but he won't and then I suggested him to go and tell someone but he said he can take it. So we had to break up because he is getting tired of being beat and having to do physical labor just because of me. Now he just walks away from me and just shuns me and it hurts so bad. I have been there for him through think and thin and he just stabs me in the back. What do I do?!

[joypulv]

Get the knife out of your back and move on, keeping good friends around you, and other interests, until the time is right for someone new.
I find a story of a man who lives with a mother who beats him and makes him do hard labor less than credible, unless he has serious problems getting out from under his mother. They are his problems, not yours. You can't cure him or change him.

[talaniman]

He didn't stab you in the back, he is just trying to save his own, can't you see that??

[SaraHere]

Wow how old is he ? Call child support lol

[answerme_tender]

I agree with TAl--

For whatever reason he is just tired of having to deal with the extra drama going out with you is causing him at home. It sounds like you BOTH are pretty young, so give him a break and just accept his decision and move on with you life.

As a survivor of child abuse, trying to dodge those fist, or listening to verbal bashing is what controls your life. My dad became an expert---by time I was finishing junior high, he knew how to hit where it didn't leave marks, he was the best actor anyone could meet, he could have just got done knocking the crap out of me, and actually go open door and ask a neighbor to come in for coffee. I knew better then to show any emotion. My best friend of 35years, wasn't even aware of the entire abuse. It wasn't something to be proud of, especially when you see that your friend comes from a normal family!