[Spydaman06]

Ok so my girlfriend and I love each other. But she is at a point where she is scared to go on with me because I have no set future at this point. I have plans to set my future in motion starting with going back to school. I put her at the center of my life, which I understand was wrong and we have had a few talks about that. We want to see what will happen from here on out, but I do not want to lose her as my girlfriend. She is the perfect woman for me, she is my perfect balance. We will always be friends no matter what, which is a great thing, but I want her to be more than just a friend, she is the woman I want to be with forever. I scared to lose her. We have been dating almost 6 months but we have been friends (and very close friends) for a lot longer. Is it wrong for me to be so sure that she is the one for me? And is it wrong for me to want to be with her all the time? She is my best friend and she always will be but I do not want to lose her? What should I do?

[talaniman]

Maybe stop worrying about the relationship and get your plan of action together. You may have talked about making her the center of your universe, but that hasn't made you stop doing it any way.

You so desperately need a life besides her.

[jmjoseph]

Love won't put food on the table. Be stable and secure at all costs.

Be someone who she can count on.

Go be all you can be.

Good luck to you.

[endlesslove230]

You know, I was insecure about my future too, but recently, I discovered what I am made for and it felt so great. You should take some serious time to decide on your future. I know that it's hard take your mind off from her, but a few minutes a day won't be that bad. I am in love with my boyfriend too. A lot, actually, but I want him to know that I care about me and my future and this gives him a great power to believe in himself and in us. Life is amazing. Just take a closer look and you'll see that. Good luck and best wishes! :)