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    jenniferS_25 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 8, 2010, 11:53 AM
    I want to try anal but don't know how 2 get my b/f 2 actually do it?
    I never did anal but I would love 2 try it with my boyfriend he asks me and I told him I want to try but then that was it he never tried or anything. Then when I asked him he said he don't want to hurt me? I'm confused if I want to try and I don't like it then we can stop!! Help??
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    Nov 8, 2010, 12:01 PM
    How old are you ?
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    Nov 8, 2010, 12:04 PM
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    Nov 8, 2010, 12:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jenniferS_25 View Post
    i never did anal but i would love 2 try it with my boyfriend he asks me and i told him i wanna try but then tht was it he never tryed or anythin. then when i asked him he said he dont wanna hurt me? im confused if i wanna try and i dont like it then we can stop!!!! help????
    Just communicate to him that this is something that you really want to try.

    You're right, if it does hurt, then you can always stop.

    Anal is not for everyone. It can be very enjoyable if done correctly.

    I would suggest reading books and/or using jellys.

    Have him start very slow.

    Honestly, the first time I had it done, we just played it by ear.

    That's all you can really do.

    Again, tell him this is what you want.

    Good luck.

    Also, just wanted to add that make sure there is plenty of four play so that you can feel relaxed.
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